Wow...what a weekend. Andrea has been my best friend for much longer than half of my life, but has just now jumped on the conscious energy bus! For some reason this visit was different than usual, and I am not sure why, but I didn't realize how happy I would be to have her fully understand what I'm striving to do, and put it in to her daily life!
It seemed like the theme for this weekend was doing work on "Being Judgmental". It's never really easy for people to grasp the idea that every time they judge someone, there is a mirror there for something they are not liking to see in themselves. Once you understand the concept though, picking up how often we do it and why becomes simple and so beneficial to taking a good look at yourself.
One of my greatest judgments is still that extremely wealthy people are unspiritual. I mean, how can you just spend ridiculous amounts of money on cars, or eat every night at a steakhouse where a side of asparagus is $13.00? I have worked on this judgment for a long time, but it still seems to linger every once in a while. I have done an enormous amount of work on this, and I now know that I use this way of thinking to attack wealthy people because they mirror in me that I don't have that kind of money. And I have extreme jealousy that they can spend money on anything they want while I still struggle and have to pick and choose what I will buy. True is, I would LOVE that money!!! I wouldn't spend it on cars or steakhouses, but definitely a beach house and sushi! And I would still be spiritual...
So, to sum up being judgmental, it is always easy to put blame on someone else so you don't have to look at yourself. But it is a much more beneficial practice to examine your judgments and then work on yourself. You see, if I keep this judgment, then why would my energy ever attract any kind of wealth? It will never! So being judgmental can be a beautiful gift to understanding your own insecurities! I recommend everyone take some time in the day to examine their judgments, and use them to grow!